In 2025 it ran 19 sessions and—by the city’s count—led to three marriages.
In 2026 the program will operate from March through December with no per-person limit on how many sessions someone can join.
Eligibility is limited to first-time-marriage candidates (never married before) aged 25–39 who live in Daejeon or work for an employer based there.
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Daejeon’s 2025 initiative, Yeon In Daejeon, has attracted attention for linking public policy with intimate life choices.
Designed to expand young people’s social networks and encourage natural, interest-based meetings, the program mixes in-person themed events and one-on-one introductions.
Notably, after 19 meetings the city reported three marriages, a result that drew both praise and scrutiny.
The program is limited to residents and employees of Daejeon and targets people aged 25–39 who are entering marriage for the first time.
Foreign nationals are excluded, and applicants must submit identity and employment documents such as proof of residence or a certificate of employment.
Each session rotates among themes—arts, culture, tourism, sports—and pairs participants for short one-on-one conversations before group activities.
Program outline
The core mission is facilitating meetings.
The public nature of the program is central to its purpose.
By running events through the city, organizers aim to offer a controlled, safe setting and to spark interest by matching people around shared cultural themes.
Applications are open March through December 2026, and attendees may sign up for as many sessions as they wish.
Participation rules restrict applicants to first-time marrieds and explicitly exclude foreign nationals.
Proof of residence or workplace in Daejeon determines which documents each applicant must submit.
Those rules reflect a policy goal: to strengthen social ties within a specific local community.
Outcomes and what they mean
The results are tangible.
First, the three marriages suggest the program offered more than socializing: it helped people build trust and mutual understanding that turned into lasting commitments.
Second, the experiment shows a local government willing to treat dating, marriage, and family formation as policy areas worthy of intervention.
Daejeon’s program explicitly aims to forge local social networks.
The themed approach—arts, sports, tourism—seems to raise participant interest and satisfaction.
That variety can turn one-off meetings into more durable networks, rather than mere blind dates.
Arguments in favor
Supporters point to public benefits.
They also say the focus on residents and local workers helps tie family formation to regional stability.
First, the program expands meeting opportunities beyond friends and coworkers by bringing them into the public sphere.
That matters because many young adults find their social circles limited to school or work; a city-run program actively broadens those circles.
Meanwhile, local policy that supports dating and family formation can be seen as one tool to address demographic challenges like low birth rates and an aging population.
By encouraging connections that lead to marriage and potentially childbirth, advocates say municipalities can contribute to long-term community sustainability.
Third, if the program is documented and evaluated, it could be a model other cities adopt.
With better data, matching methods and safety systems could improve, raising both success rates and participant confidence.
Fourth, supporters highlight possible economic spillovers: when local workers start families, they may be more likely to stay in the area, spend locally, and invest in housing, all of which support regional economies.
Concerns and critiques
But there are clear downsides.
First, there is an ethical debate about whether a government should promote a particular family ideal (marriage and childbearing).
On the one hand, supporting families can be legitimate public policy; on the other, critics say programs should not pressure people toward a single life choice. This raises questions about protecting individual freedom and diversity.
Second, the eligibility rules risk excluding people: foreign nationals, gig workers, freelancers, and others with nonstandard employment might be left out.
Also, the requirement to work for a Daejeon-based employer advantages those whose daily life is rooted there, while many young people have fluid living and working arrangements.
Third, safety and privacy deserve scrutiny.
One-to-one matching and in-person events require clear protocols: identity checks at registration are a start, but participants need transparent data management, privacy safeguards, and on-site security measures.
Fourth, public funds are limited.
Debate is legitimate over whether matchmaking should rank above housing, jobs, or education when allocating local budgets.
Some observers argue the program should be coordinated with other services rather than treated as a stand-alone priority.
Finally, evaluating success only by marriages is narrow.
Three marriages are meaningful but do not show long-term outcomes like relationship quality, marriage stability, or improvements in life satisfaction. Critics call for more rigorous monitoring before scaling up.
Practical recommendations
The program can be adjusted to reduce risks.
First, reduce exclusion by introducing flexible eligibility: accept diverse employment verification (freelance income statements, student enrollment, etc.) and consider ways to include residents with nontraditional work patterns.
Second, strengthen safety and privacy: formalize identity checks at sign-up, station trained safety staff at events, create confidential reporting channels, and publish how personal data are stored and deleted.
Third, increase budget transparency and coordinate with other social services so matchmaking complements—rather than competes with—housing, job training, and childcare programs.
Fourth, improve evaluation methods: measure not only marriages but also relationship longevity, participant satisfaction, changes in living or working arrangements, and economic effects over a defined follow-up period.
Fifth, share lessons across regions: publish anonymized data and best practices so other municipalities can learn, adopt, or adapt elements that work.
Summary and outlook
The implications are mixed but clear.
The next steps are to improve inclusion, ensure safety, and adopt rigorous performance measures.
Daejeon’s experiment shows how local policy can reach into private life.
Careful refinement that balances public goals with individual rights could allow more young people to benefit.
Used thoughtfully, the program has the potential to do more than stage events: it can help rebuild local social networks over time.
In short, the initiative may be worth continuing—but only with stronger safeguards, clearer evaluation, and broader inclusion so it serves the many rather than the few.
