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Actor Choi Bul-am, long celebrated as Korea's enduring detective and a beloved father figure on television, was laid to rest after a final farewell from family, colleagues, and the public.
His death was more than a celebrity obituary; it marked the passing of a shared television memory that shaped several generations.
The column argues that the best way to remember him is not only through his nickname, but through the long-running influence he had on Korean drama and public feeling.
When a face that once anchored an era disappears, people often remember their own lives before they remember the work. At Choi Bul-am's final farewell, many did not see only a funeral for an actor; they saw the old living-room television and the family scenes it once brought into Korean homes.
Choi was known as the eternal detective from Susa Banjang, a long-running Korean police drama title meaning roughly "Detective Chief," and he also carried the label of the country's "national father." That nickname was more than a compliment. It reflected the way Korean television once entered daily life through a trusted, familiar face.

Why one familiar face can last so long
Choi Bul-am's influence cannot be explained by a list of credits alone. He repeatedly played detectives, fathers, and neighborhood elders, building not flashy authority but a sense of everyday trust. Viewers came to see him not first as a character, but as someone who could plausibly live next door.
That kind of image is rare in popular culture. Some performers survive through reinvention; others endure through consistency. Choi was one of the clearest examples of the second path. If Korean dramas helped reshape the expressions and rhythms of family life, he stood at the center of that change as a standard-bearer of familiarity.
That is why news of his death prompted such broad mourning. The grief was not limited to a fandom or a genre audience. It reached a generation that had spent time together in front of the television, and it felt like the closing of a shared memory as much as the loss of one actor.
The power and limits of a nickname
The title of "national father" gathers respect and warmth into a single phrase. Many people remembered Choi as a dependable adult, and that memory was formed less by his private life than by the confidence he projected on screen. A good nickname can flatten a person, but it can also compress the emotion they left behind.
Still, such labels are never complete. When one image dominates too long, it can hide the range of work that came before it. Choi was easy to remember as a model father, but before that he moved through period dramas, crime stories, and human-interest roles, holding the center of television storytelling across eras.
In that sense, this farewell also reveals something about Korean entertainment culture: names and nicknames often outlive the work itself in public memory. Audiences grieve people before they recall their roles, and they remember them in phrases before they remember them in full. The warmer the phrase, the longer the person seems to remain.

What broad mourning reveals
Public grief is natural and necessary. But the death of a famous figure also raises a question about how society processes loss. Mourning can end as a burst of emotion, or it can become a calm return to the person's actual body of work and life.
In this case, the second approach feels more fitting. Choi spent decades meeting viewers, and that accumulated time was part of his legacy. If so, then sending him off should mean more than a brief wave of sentiment. It should also mean asking what kind of broadcast language he represented.
A celebrity obituary is always the end of one person’s story, but it also shows how a society manages memory. What matters is not only the tears, but whether those tears help preserve what deserves to be remembered.
The best way to remember Choi Bul-am
The simplest tribute to Choi Bul-am is to remember him not only as the national father, but as an actor who helped change how Korean dramas looked at family and society. The nickname is a starting point, not the conclusion.
Seen that way, his farewell leaves behind more than sorrow. It recalls the warmth of old television, the way one dependable figure can steady a community's emotions, and what is lost when such a face disappears. Choi Bul-am's final farewell was, in the end, not just the departure of one man, but a mirror of a generation's fading screen memory.