Is Living with Parents a Safety Net or a Barrier to Independence?
The South Korean reality TV show “Grown But Not Moving Out” features the daily lives of young adults who still live with their parents. Veteran singers Hong Seo-beom and Jo Gap-kyung, along with their two daughters, are joining the show to share their experiences.
This show sheds light on the financial and social struggles young people face when trying to achieve independence in today's economy.
The Pros and Cons of the “Kangaroo Generation”
Advantages of Living with Parents
Many young adults stay with their parents due to financial constraints, which allows them to save on rent and focus on career goals or education. For example, graduate students struggling with tuition can stay with their families to concentrate on their studies rather than juggling multiple jobs for survival.
From a cultural perspective, living with family can strengthen familial bonds. Spending more time together fosters emotional support and stability, especially in times of economic uncertainty.
Disadvantages – A Hindrance to Independence?
On the flip side, prolonged dependency on parents may hinder young adults from developing financial independence and problem-solving skills. Constant parental support could make it difficult for them to transition into independent life.
A 2020 study by the Seoul Institute reported that excessive parental dependency could impair decision-making skills and increase difficulties in adapting to professional and social settings. Additionally, prolonged cohabitation might lead to familial conflicts, straining the relationship between parents and their adult children.
Financially, this trend also places a burden on aging parents who are trying to prepare for retirement while still supporting their adult children.
Finding a Healthy Balance
The “kangaroo generation” phenomenon is a result of complex economic conditions rather than just a personal choice. Instead of merely debating whether it is good or bad, society should consider systemic solutions such as more affordable housing and employment opportunities for young people.
Living with parents is not necessarily negative if done with a clear plan for independence. If structured well, this arrangement can serve as a stepping stone rather than a crutch.
Ultimately, stronger social safety nets and youth policies are essential in fostering independence while ensuring that young people are not left to struggle alone.
